A woman, Sonia Chisom Chukwu, has revealed that she is no longer a feminist, explaining that she originally embraced the ideology out of anger toward her biological father, but has since changed her position after reflecting on the good many men have done for her.
She shared her reasons in a lengthy Facebook post, writing:
‘I'm publicly denouncing Feminism! This world is becoming too toxic for us because we are busy h@ting and fighting each other! I'm a proud pick me woman. I no do again! We are all fighting from a place of pain, I'm fighting because I was angry at my dad!
‘But I just realized that there a million and one Good and kind men out there! My husband is one of them! He is a good man! He's not perfect, has his flaws just like myself, However He's a kind man!
‘And the Taxi man that carried us yesterday Is a good man too, My uncle Ifeanyi is a Good man! My foster father Mr Arthur Iloh is a good man.. my Best friend Barrister Onuora is a good man! Honorable chima obieze is a good man, my elder brother is a good man and most important My God father Daddy Joshua! And so many of Them!
‘Cooking for your husband doesn't make you weak! Washing his clothes is not bad, cleaning the house you both live is not bad!
‘When I almost d!ed in 2018 as I was about to write my Waec because appendicitis ruptured in my stomach it was men that saved me, Rev Fr Franklin Eze the principal of St. Paul's college Eke, he paid for the Hospital bills, Still paid for my Waec! The Doctor that operated on me, The MD of unity hospital Ngwo was a man, He Was kind, spoke to us calmly, (I mean my mom and I).
‘He was considerate and Humanly, He even waved some bills for us when I was crying that my biological father was called to come and he told us he was on his way but never showed up till today, I was so angry, but there was a man that stood by us!
‘Mr Arthur He carried a grown woman like me on his Back in the middle of the night cos I couldn't walk! He was there at the hospital till we were discharged, then took us Home.
‘While I was angry at men because my own father didn't show up when I was sick and dying I forgot there were so many men who were there for me too..
‘This is a call to my fellow women! Evil has no gender! Let's not fight men! Let's stand together and fight against bad people, all the bad things you think men has done to you women has done it too!
‘Women has been found guilty of murder, kidnapping, Rape as well, robbery, Child Trafficking and Abuse, yesterday a woman stabbed her husband to death while he was sleeping! It's bad people we ought to fight! It's corruption we need to fight! It's bad leaders! Insecurity! Hunger! E.t.c not ourselves! If you wipe every man in the world what happens to our sons? Brothers and the good fathers! Uncles, e.t.c!
‘I stand for love. I stand for inclusiveness. I do not believe men and women are equal we are all abled differently! There are areas Women are superior! Infact numerous Areas! There are also areas men are superior! These whole competition is not necessary!
‘Nature has made men leaders! God too made them Heads! Let us allow them Lead while we contribute to make the leadership worthwhile!
‘I'm Sonia chisom Chukwu and I'm a pick me!’
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