Some relationships are bad because they were wrong from the start, and many end up in a wrong marriage because they failed to yield to the signs of wrong relationship they noticed at the beginning. Thus, below are 8 Signs that are you are in a wrong relationship.
- WHEN YOU DON’T FEEL LIKE YOU
When everything you’ve liked about yourself, who you are, or what makes you uniquely you, is faded or gone. When you no longer appreciate your good virtues, moral status, and your Godly beliefs, then you need to exit such a relationship.
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- WHEN YOU BLAME EACH OTHER.
When your partner finds it difficult to accept blames and pushes it to you, even when you are not the at fault, you need to look for an exit route. Or when your partner blames you for the way things are in the relationship, but you’re blaming them at the same time. It’s likely that you both share some responsibility for the way things are.
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- WHEN TRUST IS MISSING
Trust is a key ingredient in a relationship, but when the place of trust is being questioned, this is a sign to take note of. Trusting your gut when something doesn’t feel right is smart. If you’ve just got a feeling that your partner is hiding something from you, it might be a sign that you either need to confront them about it or move on. Distrust in a partnership leads to accusations.
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- YOU HAVE DIFFERENT GOALS.
When your goals, plans, aspiration, and vision are beginning to go in a conflicting direction, there is a need to pause and review your decision. Maybe when you met, you talked about your future together. You made plans for your living arrangements and how you would share financial responsibility in the relationship. Maybe you talked about having children or your career goals. If things have changed and your partner no longer shares your dream, it’s a sign that this relationship is not going to have a future much longer.
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- WHEN THERE IS NO EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION.
Effective communication is crucial in a relationship for it to flourish and become more fruitful. If you are fearful to talk to your mate or can’t express yourself freely, this is not a good sign. Being able to verbalize your feelings are all necessary for a constructive and growing relationship. A person who you can’t be comfortable in communicating with is not a love you want.
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- WHEN THERE IS NO MUTUAL COMMUNICATION
When you are the only one that calls or texts your partner, there is something wrong. When he/she avoids your calls and text and gives different for not picking your calls and calling you back, then you must know that you are all alone in that relationship. You need to take note of the sign.
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- WHEN YOUR SELF-ESTEEM IS BEING QUESTIONED
If the person you are with damages your self-esteem and tends to drain your energy–there is something wrong. When bad behaviors like negative comments or other belittling things are said, put the relationship on notice. If you discern any pattern of aggressiveness or your partner is being abusive you need to end it.
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- WHEN THERE ARE DIFFERENCES
One of the things that break up a relationship is when you both have different values, beliefs, doctrinal beliefs, lifestyles. When you are unable to harmonize your differences with your partner, you need to halt the relationship lest it hurts you in future, because as people grow they either grow together or they become disassociated. Having nothing in common will lead to stress and lead to a lack of bonding. You can’t build a life with someone who doesn’t share your own values, dreams or jokes.
