6 Greatest Mistakes Men Make in Relationships
Each person has their own challenges related to how they view and interact with the world around them. Although singularly, the fact is that many conflicts could be avoided if more people become aware of the enormous differences with which men and women act and position themselves in loving relationships.
In this sense I have tried to list some of the biggest complaints I hear from women about their peers:
1. “He is not present”
Nobody likes sticky people who keep calling or texting all the time. But, lack of attention is also a serious problem. You have to find a balance and dedicate yourself to who you love.
To feel coadjuvant in the life of one who loves is a cause of great suffering and, in many cases, causes lack of attraction and even repulsion.
2. “He does not understand me”
Women tend to amplify feelings, are usually more emotional, and feel things more intensely. It is true that sometimes they lose control, but, almost always, they soon regain their lucidity.
Accepting these “ups and downs” as natural will make her feel understood and the result will certainly be worth it.
3. “He is insensitive”
The mind of man is also a mystery to woman. Often what she calls “insensitivity” is, in fact, a less intense form of caring and attention. Being sensitive to the needs of the loved one is a learning that requires a lot of dedication from both parties. It is essential to clarify what is sought in a way that the other understands.
4. “I do not trust him”
Men tend to be less committed, especially at the beginning of the relationship. They take longer to process how much they are involved and give rise to mistrust that is always very harmful. Safety is an essential issue for women. When a man does not build trust or break at any moment, it affects in a damaging and even fatal relationship.
5. “He does not give me value”
Usually, when someone is much more interested in work or play, they simply live on the fringes of their deepest values. Of course, these activities are important but as complementary to a healthy life. Taking due value to things and people avoids much pain and regret.
6. “He controls me all the time”
The attitude of controlling the other may be made up of a genuine and sincere interest in generating well-being, evolution, or what the controller sees as the best way to be followed by Person to be controlled. Women like to feel loved, not controlled.
The beauty of love relationships is in partnership, that is, in the way the couple begins to multiply the joy in life and share the pain. Just as women tend to be more emotional, men tend to be more rational, so understanding how one tends to act facilitates and broadens the connection between them. Understanding these differences is wise!
Article by Akinbode Toluleke check up Twitter on taakinbode
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