Trust is the First Thing in Marriage—Pastor Kunle Ajayi’s Wife
The wife of popular gospel musician, Pastor Kunle Ajayi, has shared her experience in their thirty years marriage and how she has enjoyed the grace of God in managing their home in this exclusive interview with dailyfamily.ng.
Can you tell us your name, please?
My name is Mrs Oluwatoyin Temitope Ajayi
How long have you been married to Pastor Kunle Ajayi?
I have been married to pastor Kunle Ajayi for about 30 years now.
How has it been for the past 30 years?
We thank God, it is just by His grace. There is nothing any man can do if he or she has not been assisted by God. I want to thank God for the grace God has bestowed on me even to assist him prayerfully and to do what I could do humanly possible. I thank God for what he has done in the life of my husband, PKA.
How do you settle your misunderstandings?
Marriage has got its ups and downs; one thing I really love about my husband is that he has always created his own belief that you are the only person that can offend him. So, whenever there is any problem or dispute, he just waves it behind, he doesn’t carry it along like nothing has ever happened.
It is the gift of God and I am so happy for having him as my husband and he has been very good to the family and to the children, He’s been exceptionally good.
Your advice to women that have husbands in the Music Ministry?
Trust must be the number one, if you trust your husband, you will live in peace. Looking at it, you will see that a lot of women are in the music ministry and you can see women flaunting around but because of his composition and that he’s got the mind of God, I have no doubt, I have no fear.
For the past thirty years, sincerely I have never heard of any mishap or any problem with any woman, that your husband is befriending…no, that has never happened and it will never ever happen in Jesus’ name.