The Best Way To Enjoy Your Marriage
Ask someone who has been married for many years how many times he needed to forgive his spouse for the most terrible and difficult things he has ever heard or experienced, and you will surely hear that many times this marriage needed forgiveness.
Find Reasons to Forgive
Whether you are newly married or with many years of marriage, if you ponder for a moment and decide not to keep this hurt in your heart, but throw it away, you will probably find reasons and reasons to forgive one more time, an offense, a Carelessness, a lack of attention, a word said without thinking, an immature behavior, a sin.
A child growing up in a home where patience, forgiveness, respect, consideration, kindness, mercy, and compassion are constantly demonstrated, will in the future present fruits eternally compensating for this behavior set by the parents.
Mercy is almost always quiet and modest, receives little applause and headlines, is the antithesis of revenge and hatred, greed and offensive selfishness.
Communication from heart to heart
We need to analyze our routine situations in marriage as follows:
With eyes that see the anguish: That is, when we look at our spouse who has offended us, who is angry, or behaving in an inappropriate way, we must try to glimpse through his eyes his pain, his feelings, the real reason that leads To be so momentarily.
Ears that listen to silent requests for help: We all have problems, traumas, pains, and often we can not express our feelings in the correct way, then we hurt, it’s up to us as spouses to turn our listening attentive and without judgments.
Compassionate heart: Our beloved spouse may be gently heartbroken for some reason, torn apart by something unknown to us. Patience and dialogue should be our best friends in marriage.
Bring together all the most delicious ingredients you have stored throughout your life and experience, and use them now, mix carefully and add lots of love, prepare the cake of your life and be very happy in your love relationship today and forever!
It is easy to be grateful when all is well, when you are having good results regarding your goals and when you have at your disposal all the resources needed to meet your needs. But what about the challenging moments? When your financial situation does not go well, when you have any cases of illness in the family, when your plans go wrong … Are you grateful even in these moments?
Gratitude is a noble and often overlooked attribute of being practiced, it makes us happy and brings us peace to the heart. It makes us feel happy to see a bird sing and to see a plant bloom. Gratitude helps us recognize small details, not just the great and fantastic things in our life.
Do you consider yourself to be happy and grateful for what you have? Here are three signs that yes:
1. You do not regret the things you do not have
Gratitude helps us to see what is good, and to recognize positive things. When something bad happens, you have the ability to thank for something worse not to have happened, and try to identify the positive things about this obstacle. You understand that every second is not a second, but that is a second full of many things to thank.
If you take care to mourn what you do not have and the bad things that have happened, you will do it all your life and you will not have the heart to go in search of these things that you lack, and you will not recognize when good things happen.
2. You are happy with the achievements of others
When you are grateful for what you have, you are happy with the achievements of your family and friends and you hope that they will continue to do so and better and better, you are not jealous. You do not compare yourself with other people by analyzing what they have that you do not have.
3. You know how to value things
You do not expect to come across someone with greater difficulties than yours to then value what you have, or thank you for not being in similar situations. You do not expect to rain to give value to a sunny day. You know that until the rainy day has its value, and understands that all difficulties serve as learning.
Examine yourself, are these signs high or missing in your life? Look around you, see your home, your family, and all the great experiences you have ever experienced.
Remember the difficulties you’ve been through, certainly after you’ve gone through them, you’ve become stronger and you’ve been more pleased to have overcome the obstacle. There is so much to thank! Do not miss the great blessings that come from gratitude.
Article by Akinbode Toluleke check up Twitter on taakinbode
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