She wrote that the key to a happy marriage is not finding an ideal partner that will make one happy but making yourself happy first.
Sonia said a person who can’t make him/herself happy will be miserable with another person.
Here’s what she wrote:
Y’all think it’s about finding an “ideal” partner that will save u,take care of you and make you happy? Well no. It will NEVER BE ENOUGH. The key is : Learn how to BE HAPPY BY YOURSELF FIRST. Because a human being that is happy on his/her own will never settle to be miserable with someone else. When you find happiness on your own then you will be able to spread it and share it with someone else . You can’t give what you don’t have right? And you can’t expect from other human being what you CANT give yourself. No one can save you but the super human you see in the mirror so stop thinking that your happiness is out there in some future tense,laying in order person’s hand. All the magic begins in YOU! Yes , YOU ARE THAT POWERFUL !”