Babes don’t always let you know when they are in the mood and want to smash. They simply leave hints and expect you to figure it out. And you definitely should!
It’s challenging enough for a guy to need sexual fulfilment. Babes will label you as thirsty and disrespectful if you are frank and upfront about your desire to merely get some in the mood.
They claim you’re too slow and dull if you slow down and carefully bid your time.
“A babe once told me that I don’t take hints, and I was pained no be small” recalls Farouk [not his real name], who is 27 years old.
As if that weren’t bad enough, when chicks [including your girlfriend] are in the mood and want to have sex with you, they almost never say so.
They’ve mastered the ability to throw hints and not much else, as our tailored Pulse Poll here plainly illustrates.
So, if you don’t want to be labelled as a dull guy, you’ll need to learn how to take clues, and here are some of the greatest ways to do so.
1. Be sensitive:
It’s a no-brainer, really. You must be sensitive to be conscious and responsive of your girl’s move in order to know when to go in [pun intended].
“I’m coming over,” is traditional line girls have been known to employ.
Others prefer to come over and feed you delicious meals, while others want to rub on you excessively, and still, others do things that are far more random and subtle.
The most important thing to remember here is to be sensitive, and over time, you’ll get acclimated to your girl’s favourite I-want-to-have-sex moves.
2. Calculated risk:
Given how simple it is to misinterpret her acts as hints when she isn’t, this is a delicate situation.
“If a girl wants you to touch her and do anything with her, you would know somehow, unless you’re not paying attention or incredibly dumb,” says Ogechi, 25.
So, folks, there’s no way to know unless you give it a shot. You must, however, exercise considerable caution.
Don’t dive in headfirst. Hold her hand in yours and watch how she reacts. If she’s okay with it, softly fondle her palm to see how she reacts.
The goal is to go as slowly as possible in order to avoid crossing any lines.
If you’re not sure, you could always ask her. However, some women believe that asking takes away from the fun.
3. Know when to stop:
Knowing WHEN TO STOP is one of the most important aspects of taking a hint.
Rape is real and nasty, guys. You must stop instantly if she says stop, regardless of whether she is your babe or not!
Don’t even think about claiming “she doesn’t mean it.”
Assume she’s serious and behave appropriately. Allow her to be the one to tell you to keep going.
There is no clearer suggestion than what is explicitly stated.
Have a good time, bruhs.