Like Bitcoin, Crypto Currency, TBC, legal tender etc, used in the business world, Love has its own Currency through which its romantic transactions are being carried out. But truthfully, many do not understand or even know the currency of love.
EXCLUSIVE: THE CURRENCY OF LOVE (PART ONE)
While I was younger, I used to ask myself why do people go into relationship? (or let me say have Boyfriend/Girlfriend). Out of my Juvenile mind, I concluded that having a relationship means you consent to trade your body for sex with whoever you are dating. That; I called the Currency of Love. I thought that what makes a lady your girlfriend is sex because you probably have other friends that are girls, but you do not do such with them.
Like some other persons, I concluded that Sex is the Currency of Love through which you prove that you truly love whom you are dating and the only legal tender you transact your illegal love affair with your illegal partner-in-crime.
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According to Bisi Adewale, in his book Stronger Than Diamond he says that “some men demand sex from ladies who need help because that is the best way to be paid back. This is wrong Sex is not the Currency of Love do not expect to be paid back through sex”. Many gullible ladies have been engulfed by this phantasmagoric lies from men that “the only way to prove your love to me is to go with me in bed, else its over between us”. And such a lady would later say, “I allowed him because I don’t want to lose him”. These are lies! Rather than making a good deal out of your love transaction with him through sex, the transaction becomes faulty because, when you are not available to transact with such a currency at hand he would go with another lady available with the currency.
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Another implication of this erroneous Currency of love is that it terminates trust from such a relationship. Any man that cannot abstain himself from having sex with you before wedding would be unable to withdraw himself from such a temptation even in marriage.
Other implications of this erroneous Currency of Love is that its makes it players vulnerable to STDs, unwanted pregnancies, Abortions etc which ultimately could destroy their marital destiny, future family and could even truncate their lives.
However, Sex is one of those Currencies of Love that should be used to transact the business of Love in Marriage.
In our next article, we shall enumerate the Currencies of Love to be used in Marriage, so stay tuned.
