CAUSES OF INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE
CAUSES OF INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE
Infidelity is one of the destroyers of marriages. It is unfaithfulness in marriage or other obligations. It can also be a betrayal of trust or loyalty to one’s partner. Infidelity applies more to marriage than other aspects of life.
Before casting the blame, take a close look at those things that causes infidelity so you can either work on it or avoid it.
1. Not resolving problems
Issues come up in marriages but how we handle them matters a lot. When you give excuses instead of facing the problem between you and your spouse it gives room for infidelity. Work together with your spouse to solve whatever problems that arise in your marriage.
Silence creates distance between couples. Don’t keep silent over those little changes you notice in your spouse, you don’t have to wait for issues to aggravate before you talk it out.
In marriage, you have to be sensitive to the state of your partner. Don’t ignore how they feel, what they say, changes in their reactions and so many things that are signals to show you that someone else is taking their attention.
4. Boring relationship
Your marriage should be interesting if you want it to last. You and spouse should create time for each other, play together, make love and have fun. If your partner find you boring and someone else makes him happy out there, then it may gradually lead to infidelity.
5. Lack of respect for each other
Show your spouse the respect they deserve or else you will lose them. Don’t insult your spouse in public or fight each other. Every man and woman deserve to be respected especially your spouse.
6. Internet and pornography
Nowadays, the internet is contributing more to causing infidelity between couples. On the internet, there are so many polluted things like pornography, nude pictures and so on. Married couples should be careful with how they make use of the internet so as to nurture their marriage to a great respect and sanctity.
As we grow older, the vibe in the relationship may be lacking. To avoid infidelity in the marriage of older spouses, they need to exercise and take good care of their body so they can be strong and able to satisfy each other sexually.
8. Getting married for the wrong reason
If you got into your marriage based on reasons that are not right, very soon you will get tired of that partner and it can lead to infidelity if not well managed.
Being addicted to alcohol, drugs, food, movies and other things can drift you and your partner apart. If you notice you are getting too attracted to anything, try to avoid it and also discuss it with your partner
10. Long distance
Staying apart in marriage can lead to infidelity. Long distance will not allow you to pay proper attention to the needs of your spouse. Avoid long distance in your marriage to protect it from infidelity.
11. Lack of appreciation
Learn to appreciate your spouse for every little or big things they do. Apart from what they do, you should appreciate how they look and love them for who they are. Express your appreciation with your mouth, say how beautiful they look, how special they make you feel.
To avoid infidelity in your marriage, you have to avoid so many things and do a lot of things.