Alert Singles: Some Things Getting Married Will Never Stop You From Doing
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To be married is beautiful but it is not an achievement depending on how you see it. Marriage is good but it is not an end in itself, you have to put a lot of things into place for you to truly enjoy your marriage. Alert Singles: Some Things Getting Married Will Never Stop You From Doing
A lot of people want to get married because they are looking for the solution to many negative things about them that they believe marriage can solve or having someone to live with will automatically put an end to them. Can I tell you the bitter truth here? Marriage doesn’t put an end to unwholesome habits, for marriage to actually be successful, it needs two whole people. Alert Singles: Some Things Getting Married Will Never Stop You From Doing
Find below some of the things getting married will never stop or change; Alert Singles: Some Things Getting Married Will Never Stop You From Doing
1. LUST
Lust is something that is powerful and can ruin whoever is fond of lusting after people. Lust is not healthy and getting married will not stop you from it. You need to intentionally and consciously get out of lust as a single for you to really enjoy your marriage. In marriage, you tend to see it as if variety is the spice of life and so you will still lust after people. Don’t get married because you feel it will put an end to the sin of lust, deal with lust first before it destroys your marriage.
2. Masturbation
You are masturbating not because you are single or lonely but you are because you have allowed your mind to process a thought. Peradventure you saw something and you feel the need to satisfy yourself by yourself. When you get married, you will still look for a way to satisfy yourself because masturbation will not make you get the satisfaction from your spouse
3. Pornography
This is even deadlier, watching pornography is killing you slowly but you think you are enjoying. There is no way you will be watching the naked image of another person and you expect your spouse to be satisfied in marriage.
4. Fornication
If you are a single and you have been engaging in all kinds of sex, marriage will not stop it. Marriage will only aggravate it to the next level which is adultery. In marriage, you begin to think about all those people you have had sex with and so, there is no way you will enjoy your spouse.
5. Unfaithfulness
If you are an unfaithful person as a single, there is no way marriage will make you faithful.
6. Lying
If you are a liar as a single, you only graduate to be a Chief Liar as a married because you will lie and always look for something to cover up your many lies
7. Bad Character
Ever heard of the saying ‘Bad character is like a deflated tyre, until it is changed you cannot go anywhere with it?’ That is the truth until you replace all your bad characters with good and healthy ones marriage is not for you
If you don’t want to be frustrated in marriage, what you need to do is to change all these negative things first, and then you can think of getting married.
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