Everyone going into marriage desires a good and a successful marriage but there are secrets you need to know and steps to take before you can achieve that marriage of your dream. Here are 7 Secrets of Successful Marriage.
Number One is Weakness: everyone you marry has a weakness, so if you focus on your partner’s weakness you can’t get the best out of his or her strength.
Number Two is Dark History: everyone has a dark history, no one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married, stop digging into someone’s past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away.
Number Three is Challenges: every marriage has its own challenges; marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proved in times of challenges makes a good and strong marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow is for better for worse.
Number Four is Levels of Success: every marriage has different levels of success, don’t compare your marriage with anyone else, we can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.
Number Five is to Declare War: to get married is declaring war, when you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage like Ignorance, prayerlessness, unforgiveness, third-party influence, stinginess, stubbornness, lack of love, rudeness, laziness, disrespect, and cheating.
Number Six is taking a Huge Risk: getting married is taking a huge risk, you can not predict what will happen in the future, situations may change so leave room for adjustment. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies, all these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.
Number Seven is Paying the Price: every marriage has a price to pay, marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you will withdraw, if you don’t deposit love, peace, and care into your marriage you may not have a successful marriage.