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9 Urgent Questions to Ask A Guy Before Saying Yes

Before a guy gets the yes answer from you, there are some important details you should have known about him and these can only be gotten when you ask the right questions..dailyfamily.ng

9 Urgent Questions to Ask A Guy Before Saying Yes

Before a guy gets the yes answer from you, there are some important details you should have known about him and these can only be gotten when you ask the right questions.

Before a guy gets the yes answer from you, there are some important details you should have known about him and these can only be gotten when you ask the right questions..dailyfamily.ng
9 Urgent Questions to Ask A Guy Before Saying Yes

Asking the right questions help you get information that will show you either the green or red light as regards the future you may or may not have together.

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Every serious-minded young woman in a serious relationship should please take note of the following questions:

#What is your purpose: there is a common saying that when the purpose of a thing is not known abuse is inevitable. If the guy who is going to be your head forever has no purpose for his life, you should know that your marriage will also be purposeless.

It is important to know if he has found out his life’s purpose first and if he hasn’t, let him do so first before thinking about marriage.

#What do you think about marriage: it is very important for you to know how your guy views marriage. His answer to this question is very useful in guiding you right because some think marriage is for raising babies alone, some think marriage is to dominate the woman and all other negative reasons they have.

#What is your view about women: a lot of guys grew up in a home where their fathers battered the women and this has a powerful effect on what they think about women. When the guy keeps complaining about his mother, sisters, and other females, it may be a sign that he has a lot of misconceptions about women.

#Who is your role model: it is important for you to know the person your guy looks up to or seeks advice from. Knowing this will help you know the kind of person he is really as the adage goes that Birds of the same feather flocks together.

#What is your Temperament Trait: knowing the personality of your guy can help you determine a lot of things and it starts with the temperament traits he has. For example, if you are a Melancholy major and your guy is a Sanguine Major, there will always be issues except it is worked on with understanding.

#What is your love language: love languages are majorly five in number but when you know that of your partner, you both will be able to manage each other’s strength and weaknesses. For example, if your spouse likes to be given gifs, you will always know how to please him.

You can learn about all the five love languages that we have to get a better understanding.

#What are your short-term goals: in a relationship, both lovers are meant to be in agreement but if the goals, aspirations, and dreams of the both of them are not in line, there is going to be a lot of problems. Short-term goals are goals that are meant to be achieved within a period of at most five years and knowing this will help you both to align your passion and support each other throughout the period.

#What are your long-term goals: just like knowing the short-term goals, long-term goals are also important as they will show you the kind of husband you expect to live with for the rest of your life.

#What kind of wife do you want: finally, you need to ask your guy to define the kind of woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with. His answers are very important and you have to make sure that it is just flattery to make it look like you are the exact person but that he is saying the truth from his heart.

Ladies, before asking all these questions, ask yourself first and make sure you have answers about your life because this will guide you through knowing the right path to tread in marriage.

Note, however, that you should not ask your guy these questions during a phone conversation but ask them looking straight into his eyes to get the body language that goes with the words he is saying.

When you get the answers, weaknesses you find out may not mean you should walk out of the relationship but it may mean you need to give each other time to grow before going into marriage.

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