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9 Major Pre-marital challenges for ladies in Nigeria

by Adenike Akindude
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In this part of the world, single ladies are faced with a lot of challenges than that of men due to many factors that are peculiar to the female gender.

Here are 9 pre-marital challenges ladies are faced with:

 

  1. Pressure from families

In this part of the world, a single lady who has reached a certain age, especially her late-twenties are faced with high pressure from parents and other family members. Most times, parents remind them that time is not on their side. Such pressure may lead many single ladies to settle for any kind of man.

 

  1. Peer Pressure

Some single ladies feel intimidated whenever they are in the midst of their married friends as it reminds them of their single status. Such pressure can lead to depression and may lead the lady to take a wrong step in her pursuit to getting married.

 

Some single ladies also believe that being married commands respect. This makes them put unnecessary pressure on themselves so as to get married in good time.

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  1. Loneliness

Some single ladies suffer from loneliness and wish they could share their feelings and dreams with someone. Unfortunately, they believe their singleness to be the cause of their loneliness and see marriage as the solution.

 

Ladies in this state refuse to allow other things such as personal achievements, family, and friends to be sources for their joy but only wish that marriage will fill that vacuum.

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  1. Frequent Break-ups

Some men see older unmarried ladies as Desperadoes and thus use such opportunities to play on their emotions and escape after their objectives have been fulfilled. This is why older ladies that are unmarried hardly have a lasting relationship.

 

However, some men are afraid of the independence of these ladies and they feel if they choose to marry them, such ladies may boss them around and become hard to control in marriage. secure has made it hard for older ladies to find a decent man to marry.

 

  1. Fear of choosing the wrong partner

Another challenge single ladies face is the fear of falling into the hands of a wrong spouse. With the increase in divorce rates all over the world, some ladies are becoming more careful in the area of choosing a life partner.

 

  1. Age factor

It is a common saying, especially in Nigeria, that age is not on the side of a woman. This saying makes unmarried women become very worried especially after reaching the age of 30. They start to feel that time is working against them; they are worried about marriage and childbirth.

 

  1. Protection

The world is becoming more insecure everyday and as it is commonly assumed that a woman cannot adequately protect herself compared to a man. This is why most unmarried ladies feel they will be more secure when they are married as their husband will be able to protect them from danger.

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  1. Societal pressure

The way the society view unmarred ladies that are of age especially in Nigeria is wrong. Most people see these ladies as arrogant, independent, not well behaved and so on. The society looks at unmarried ladies as being irresponsible.

 

  1. Financial burden

A lady spends a lot of money to take care of their personal needs and if she doesn’t have a good job that pays well, it becomes a burden. Ladies that are unmarried also spend money to take care of their parents and families.

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This wrong societal view has put unmarried ladies under much pressure. They cannot wait to take the MRS title just to show off.

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