8 things that long-time couples NEVER do
Many people wonder how some couples can spend their whole lives together and still be forever boyfriends. In a world where divorce happens for small things is becoming increasingly unheard of to encounter long-time couples.
But what many people forget is that weddings are built day by day, a little at a time, with care, affection, love, empathy, forgiveness, without haste or despair, only in this way can it become enduring.
Some couples take care of their marriages and fight that certain things do not happen between them:
1. Do not lie
In a marriage, both work together to become one and for this, it is important, to be honest with the spouse. Lying is a word that should not exist in a happy marriage.
2. Do not sleep brigados
If they are upset with each other the best thing to do is not let the problem move to the next day. Talking about it, forgiving, using empathy is one of the secrets to lasting marriage.
3. Do not give up on each other
To err is something subject to all, after all, they are all flawed, but love must speak louder than flaws and mistakes. When the spouses honor the marriage and love between them, they do not give up on each other.
4. They are not selfish
Of course, they both have their own wills and it is up to the couple to understand this, but selfishness is a feeling that can not reign to make the marriage happy and enduring.
5. Do not get frustrated
Long-term couples are not frustrated because their personal yearnings are set aside for their relationship. They understand the priority of their lives.
6. Do not speak “I”
Couples engaged in their marriage always think of “us”. This, without doubt, is a great differential that shows respect and affection for the spouse.
7. Do not fight, argue
Many relationships end up by the excess of fights that happens between the couple, many of them even with offenses and aggressions. For a marriage to be happy and lasting, one must learn to discuss the problem and not fight for it. Discussing is more about exposing ideas and coming to common sense about whatever the problem is. Long-term couples, no doubt, have learned to do this.
8. Do not create problems
Can a spouse’s attitudes be a reason for a discussion or relationship problem? No, they can not. Long-lasting couples do not create storms in a glass of water, they understand that the person is more important than the problem and so they live happily for much longer.
No marriage is perfect but both can together seek to learn how to make it better so that they can spend their lives together and very happy.
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