6 Ways Your Relationship Would Change Overtime
A true relationship involves more than just a physical attraction, it involves a deep association that tends to endure amid the challenges of life.
True relationships focus on potential rather than perfection, for in it lies a mature love that purifies the home, strengthens the character of the spouses, and builds dreams.
These are the 6 ways a marriage will change in 30 years for the better.
1. You listen more and talk less
The art of listening is fundamental, at any time, but when it comes to marriage, listening to the other is like saying, “You are very important to me!”, Or even more: “I am at your disposal.” Things like that, in a marriage, are priceless.
2. You recognize the vulnerability of the relationship
Now, everything that is human is vulnerable, in a marriage this is no different. However, when the couple is aware of this vulnerability, they will certainly tread cautiously so as not to hurt. And acting prudently will be valuing the other, consequently, it will strengthen family ties.
3. Becomes mature in the relationship
Maturity is not at the mercy of age, but rather of common sense. A mature relationship is a relationship of trust; Double-hand; Of mutual respect; Of dialogue; Of delivery; Of abdication and dedication. The maturity in a life to two allows valuing the opinion of the other, provides merit and recognition of values that inhabit the minutiae.
4. Become an accomplice
Complicity is paramount. To be an accomplice is to be a companion. It is giving up certain wills to be with each other. It is like to walk side by side. It is putting the other in the foreground, without ever feeling less, because to elevate the other is to recognize the value of both. To be complicit is to offer your best, for the sake of a joint cause, in the certainty that you are working together, seeking the best for both of you.
5. Learn to act with respect
It is well known that respect is the basis of family and coexistence in general. Respect is the guiding axis for great achievements. Respect begins to be respected, because self-respect is equally proportional to mutual respect.
6. Learn to love
Love is the noblest of all feelings. When there is love there is respect, there is complicity, there is maturity, there is recognition of vulnerability (or care for the other) and it is known to listen. I Corinthians 13 teaches that it is useless to know how to speak the language of angels and also of men if they do not know how to love. A Portuguese poet says “Love is fire that burns without feeling”.
Love is the beginning of wisdom. And it is through love that we become weak enough not to be angry with each other; And strong enough not to falter in difficult times.
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