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6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space

6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space

6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space

Last time we took a look at When your spouse/girlfriend tells you she needs some space.

This time around Dailyfamily will share with you 6 reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space. It could be anything you said. Alternatively, she could be feeling overburdened. Ask her if you honestly want to know. But, in the meanwhile, let’s look at why she needs distance and what you should do after she tells you.

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1. She simply requires some breathing room:

I know it sounds weird, but things aren’t always as complicated as they appear. She could be dealing with a variety of things at home, at school, or at work. Taking the time to see you is simply too much for her at this moment. She needs to rest since she is fatigued and flustered.

6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: She needs breathing space
6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: She needs breathing space

When a girl says she needs space, she isn’t trying to dump you. It doesn’t mean you’re a jerk or that you irritated her. It just indicates she requires some time to organize her affairs or to unwind. This is most likely the cause if you know how stressful her life is. She’s trying to reclaim control of her life and needs some alone time to do so.

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2. She craves for the life she had before you:

She hasn’t gone out with her girlfriends since she’s been with you. She hasn’t gone clubbing in a while, and it’s bugging her. She simply wants some time to herself to do the things she enjoys.

6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: She misses her life before you
6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: She misses her life before you

This doesn’t necessarily mean she’s tired of you or unhappy; it simply indicates she’d like to reclaim some of her autonomy. She requires the same time as you do to hang out with the guys.

It’s unlikely that you’re trying to control her, but she appears to be unable to do the things she used to do while she’s around you. It’s possible that you’ve had a whirlwind romance that has been both wonderful and exhausting.

She simply requires more space to do what she enjoys.

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3. She sees you far too frequently:

She's sees you too frequently
6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: She sees you far too frequently

She sees you frequently. Yes, she enjoys spending time with you, but she’s sick of your face right now. Perhaps she needs to process her emotions. Yes, anything you did may have irritated her. When a girl says she needs space, she usually means she just wants to spend a couple of days at home in her PJs without seeing your face.

I know it sounds harsh, but there is such a thing as too much of someone. She may be accustomed to spending time alone, so spending a lot of time with you may be too much interaction for her. Maybe you just chew too loudly at times, and she prefers to eat quietly.

4. She is contemplating quitting the relationship:

It’s not fun to be share romantic moments with someone you don’t want to be with anymore. Neither of them wants to spend time with him.

Don’t jump to this conclusion right away. If this is the case, there should have been warning indicators before making this decision. She’d be physically withdrawing and retreating. When someone is waiting to end a relationship with you, they may not even state they need space, but they will take it nonetheless.

6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: She is contemplating quitting the relationship
6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: She is contemplating quitting the relationship

But, if that’s what it means for your girlfriend, she might be testing the waters to see if she appreciates time away from you.

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5. Nothing seems to be changing:

Has she requested your assistance around the house a lot of times? Have you completed the task? She’s had enough of bothering you. As a result, she’s requesting some breathing room. She appears to be doing everything she can to avoid breaking up with you, but you aren’t giving her much of a choice.

Clearly, you are aware of whether or not you have altered your conduct. If you haven’t, and your relationship has reached this point, are you still interested in being with her? There’s a reason she’s not content, and you might not be either.

6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: Nothing seems to be changing
6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space?: Nothing seems to be changing

6. She’s having trouble communicating with you:

Girls aren’t always eager to read. When a female claims she wants space, it’s possible that she’s dealing with a serious problem. She’s becoming tired of being around you and not being able to tell you what’s going on.

Maybe she’s reluctant to say something because she’s worried about how you’ll react. It’s also possible that she’s simply overloaded and in denial. This is the space she requires to reflect without your interference.

She's having trouble communicating with you
She’s having trouble communicating with you

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