Married women have their overwhelmingly great sides. But there are some behaviors that could be detrimental to the relationship or their marriage. Here are some mistakes women make in their marriage.
1. Lack of sex.
Having sex once in a month! She will always come up with excuses like: I have a headache, I’m not in the mood, and you only come to me when you need sex… Sex is one of the cheapest things to get out there! But when the man holds those quality times with his wife as sacred, lack of sex can be a spoiler in the relationship. The funny thing is that most time when he presses on, you tend to submit. Why then make him labour? The worst is when you never initiate sex. No words to describe this torture. Again, why will your husband walk into the room just for you to begin to adjust your top to conceal your boobs or bum? If you can’t display the resources for him freely, then don’t fault him if he thinks you are having an affair outside.
2. ‘Disrespectfulness’.
Not acknowledging your husband at appropriate moments. Imaging not saying good morning when you see him in the morning. Maybe after a fight. But making it a habit. Hmmm.
She will say you are on leave and still you don’t have time to call. But when she is on leave, she will pretend to be asleep until the man leaves the house. Sometimes, he remembers he left his phone or something behind. He comes back to get it and realises that she was only waiting for him to leave the house before she gets up. What a shame. Your husband gets home, rings the bell. You go unlock the door and return to what you were doing without receiving him at the door.
3. Love for money.
Money makes the world go round. But if the only time you are happy is when your palm is greased with money or gift, then, there is an issue.
4. ‘Rudeness.
This is a little different from number 2. “Baby, it’s not done that way. See how it’s done.” When you take offence anytime a correction is suggested, you create a gap in the relationship. The husband cannot even ask if you have seen his wallet without you taking offence.
5. Pouring your annoyance on the children always.
No illustration needed here. If you have an issue bothering you, why not discuss it amicably?
6. Total disregard for body/beauty maintenance.
I don’t know if this is peculiar to Nigeria but once a woman is married, she pays little attention to her looks with the ridiculous belief that “Who is looking at me?” Though a married woman is not expected to portray herself as a slut at the same time must make herself presentable at home and in the public.
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