If you profess to love someone, you should avoid saying these things to them.
1. “You’re a woman, act like one”
When men use these terms to describe women, they frequently do so in the context of oppression, subjection, delimitation, and other notions that demonstrate women’s oppression and promote their unjust treatment in some way.
Do not do this to any woman, but especially not to your own.
2. Anything that makes her lose confidence
There isn’t a solid list of things not to say since there is literally a ton of crap you shouldn’t say to anyone, let alone the ladies in your life.
In general, though, you can’t say anything that undermines your babe’s self-assurance. It’s terrible to tear her down rather than build her up. That’s something you can’t say to her face or even behind her back.
If you have to criticize her, do so in a gentle, helpful, and loving manner. That is your woman. It’s up to you to encourage her with your words and deeds.
3. Anything that pokes fun at her insecurities
You’re aware of the weight concerns she discusses with you and the anxiety she exhibits about a certain region of her body? Those aren’t allowed, bruh! You can’t make fun of them!
If she feels uneasy about it, it’s off-limits. Even while women like men who make them laugh and chisel our jokes out of everything, we doubt anybody would find it amusing if you made jokes out of their fears.
4. Don’t say things you do not mean
This is an age-old guideline that you should be aware of and never break. If you don’t mean what you’re saying, don’t say it. Not even when you’re upset or in the middle of a quarrel. You may never be able to make amends with them. As a result, try not to speak harsh things that you obviously do not mean.
5. If she asks if you think she looks fat…
You should be aware that this is a trap you should avoid at all costs. Never, ever, say yes to that question.
Even if she says she wants you to be really honest, the answer is still no.