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5 Steps to a Lasting Marriage
It is the dream of everyone that the marriage ends up in the best way possible. What are the steps needed in order to have your marriage last long?

1. Everything starts with choice
First of all, it is important that we be aware that we will never find a perfect person, and if we do, we will certainly not be worthy of that person! Everyone has defects . When we are deciding whether or not to marry someone, the question to ask is whether we are willing to live with that person’s faults. Certain defects can cause us a nuisance so great that it is impossible to coexist, and in this case the best thing to do is not to continue with the relationship. Before marriage, there must be an effort not to allow emotion to guide us instead of reason. We must make a very well-considered decision.

2. Conscious Effort
If we let life take us, if we live without worrying about marriage, the tendency is to wear out and, after a few years, love will disappear completely and the only possible choice is divorce.

It takes attention, effort and diligence in marriage. Telling your spouse kind words, praising, gifting whenever possible, being loving and loving, planning activities that get you out of the rut are some things that must be done consciously so that the health of the marriage is preserved.

3. Humility
Patience, self-reflection, willingness to forgive, to relieve, to forget, to give in, to give up some things are attributes that contribute to the happiness of marriage, as long as within the limits of the acceptable.

That provision must exist in both spouses. The relationship in which only one spouse is always with the head low becomes a time bomb: it can explode at any moment. No one is happy giving up the whole time. But when there is a greater interest in the health of marriage in both parties than in having reason, marriage tends to be happier.

4. Dialogue
As it was said at the beginning, a couple is formed by two individuals who think differently. There can be no agreement and harmony between the couple if there is a frequent, open, sincere, honest and loving dialogue.5-steps-lasting-marriage

It is essential to always talk. You have to be willing to accept the opinion of the other, to recognize that we are not always right and to give in a few times. And always express clearly what we are feeling.

5. Respect for Individuality
As much as the couple’s goal is to become one flesh, there are still two individuals, with desires, yearnings, worldviews and opinions not always coincidental. Each of the spouses is still a person and needs their space, needs to have their individuality respected.

In a happy marriage there is no coercion, there is no invasion of space, there is no pressure or suspicion. There is no happiness when one of the spouses feels invaded, coerced or suffocated. The more freedom, the more marriage in marriage.

This are what the experienced individuals had said concerning marriage, and you can make use of the tips in order to succeed.

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