5 Reason why some relationships have last forever

5 Reason why some relationships have lasted forever

Long-lasting Relationships these days feel like a hoax, it feels like a mere dream or purpose that will never work. Young people these days might not be able to grasp how much effort it takes to make a relationship last.

Why does it seem like some relationships last forever, why others don’t even last for days?

5 reasons why some relationships last forever.

 

  1. Get over the fights:

There are no perfect relationships, every relationship has encountered some fights or another depending on how serious the reason is like; cheating or how minor it is like; how you handle the toothpaste tube.

Since you’re two different people, at some point when the pressure is extreme, both sides will explode. This is a fact about relationships and life at large.

5 Reason why some relationships have last forever; Get over the fights
5 Reason why some relationships have last forever; Get over the fights

If you really care about that person, you must be ready to get over the fights and move on with your love life. Fights in a relationship allow both parties to understand each other and afterwards learn one or two new things about each other and get better.

You mustn’t hold grudges toward one another because that’s a sign of a very toxic relationship and it isn’t something you want to do if you want your relationship to last.

“Often once the heat of the moment has passed, they feel closer to one another as a result.”

Read Also: Things most Guys do not know about Ladies (Part 1)

2. Make Adjustments:

You simply cannot possess all the required qualities that your partner desires from you or the relationship, but there’s a way and manner to get past this; you must adjust to his/her lifestyle.

Ask much as relationships are about love, it’s also about sacrifice and how much you’re willing to bend in order to accommodate the other person in your life.

If you care about your partner, taking this step should come easy to you. The things he/she enjoys like; food, hobbies and movies should be put into consideration.

Sometimes religious beliefs might become a hindrance, but if you have the ability to make those necessary adjustments, then your relationship would go far.

5 Reason why some relationships have last forever; make adjustments
5 Reason why some relationships have last forever; make adjustments

“Adjusting to her way of life wasn’t too difficult but there’s a limit to how much I could adjust else I would break like a rubber band that has reached its elastic limits.”

Read Also: 5 Things you should know before marrying an Igbo man.

3. Let the Wonders never end:

The Webster dictionary refers to wonders as an “astonishment at something awesomely mysterious or new to one’s experience.” 

As much as people try to refute it, we all love to be surprised with a wonderful gesture from others especially someone that we love with the bottom of our hearts.

So if you’re to keep the fire of your love burning you have to keep the wonders going, never let it cease.

5 Reason why some relationships have last forever; Let the wonders never end
5 Reason why some relationships have last forever; Let the wonders never end

Once in a while, you can surprise her with small gifts or performances that will cheer him/her up even in your absence. Surprise him with some of his favourite console games or favourite football team jersey.

Send her nice gifts to her office during the day or on your way back home, make her favourite meal, do the chores before she gets home and so on. You will be shocked at how much WONDER and magic you can create in their lives.

“I got Dayo a PS5 console with the money I had kept for that purpose for months, his eyes were filled with love. I couldn’t have asked for a better reaction from the man I love.” 

Read Also: Amazing Ways To Become A Good Husband

4. Cheap thrills = invaluable moments:

Have you ever thought about the fact that you just need little or no money to catch the fun of your lives – welcome to the Island of Cheap Thrills, where most have heard about and only a few have ever been to?

In a world where it seems like money is everything, most people have been able to sustain a love life no other in the midst of all the chaos and inflation going on around the world.

Cheap thrills = invaluable moments: 
Cheap thrills = invaluable moments:

Cheap thrills basically refers to minor things done for entertainment. 

You can both;

  • Attend a free concert
  • Watch a TV show or movie together
  • Prepare lunch together in the kitchen
  • Take a walk down the road, heading nowhere and going somewhere.

“Bisi and I have busy weeks, so we plan the Saturday together, I buy the chicken, fish, and drinks. She buys the ingredients for the stew or soup. While she cooks, I do the pounding, I even distract her, crack jokes, steal some fish or meat from the cooker and it doesn’t cost much money but we share the time of lives.”

 

5. Handle his/hers with care:

Most people do not hide their level of commitment to their families, for them, matters that concern the family is paramount to their existence.

Since you are in that committed relationship, you have to make space in your life to meet up with their family members one time or another.

5 Reason why some relationships have last forever; Handle his/hers with care
5 Reason why some relationships have last forever; Handle his/hers with care

Most people try to influence or force their partners to choose between the relationship and their family which is totally wrong.

You must bridge the awkwardness that comes with meeting them and treat them with respect and kindness. Trust me, he or she will appreciate and love you for every small effort you make at being so good with their family.

Never build a high wall between yourselves and them.

” Ada and my sister Chika are close friends, sometimes they plan pranks on me. I always suspect when those two are together, they are always up to something. I love Ada so much for this, my family loves her so much too.” 

 

Read Also:  Ways people react to disappointments and setbacks – Yomi Adewale

 

Kindly follow us on: 

Twitter

Instagram

Comments

comments

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published.

You may also like

Politics

JUST IN: Buhari opens Ministers’ performance retreat amid ‘sack’ speculations

post-image

President Muhammadu Buhari opened a two-day mid-term ministerial performance review retreat in Abuja on Monday, amid reports that more of his ministers will be sacked for poor performance.

The yearly retreat, which is attended by Ministers, Permanent Secretaries, and other top government officials, is held to evaluate the administration’s top functionaries’ performance.

President Buhari announced the dismissal of two of his ministers during the weekly Federal Executive Council (FEC) meeting on September 1.
They were the Ministers of Power, Engr. Saleh Mamman, and Agriculture and Rural Development, Alhaji Sabo Nanono, at the time, informing others that the action would be ongoing.

According to presidency sources, the President may be waiting for the results of the continuing review process before taking action, which may include removing more of his cabinet members whose performance and conduct do not satisfy the administration’s standards.

President Buhari said he would stay for the entire two-day performance review retreat at…

Comments

comments

Read More
Culture and traditional lifestyle Travel

5 Common Myths That Are Untrue About Edo People

post-image

5 Common Myths That Are Untrue About Edo People

Edo state, affectionately known as the “heartbeat of the nation,” has a slew of prejudices that need to be debunked.

5 Common Myths That Are Untrue About Edo People
5 Common Myths That Are Untrue About Edo People

Here are 5 common myths that are untrue about the Edo people.

Edo state, with an estimated population of 8 million people, is a state rich in culture, history, and tradition.

Edo state is home to the Oba of Benin and has produced numerous notable Nigerians, both dead and alive. There are, however, a lot of misconceptions regarding the state.

Read Also: The things you never knew about Fulani Festival; The Sharo

There are a plethora of activities…

Comments

comments

Read More
Lifestyle Travel

6 tips for survival in the city of Lagos

post-image

6 tips for survival in the city of Lagos

6 tips for survival in the city of Lagos
6 tips for survival in the city of Lagos

Surviving in Lagos is a challenging task. It is a place of great appeal to both people wanting to relocate to Lagos and those who already live and work there.

Anyone who succeeds in Lagos is widely regarded to be successful everywhere in the world. Lagos is the country’s most populous metropolis and a major commercial hub.

In a city like Lagos, knowing how to climb through and make life meaningful is essential. Without further ado, here are 6 tips for survival in the city of Lagos, these are key strategies for surviving Lagos’s madness:

Read Also: 5 Places where you can buy a pet in Lagos

6. Socialise and meet people with caution:

You have to be very careful…

Comments

comments

Read More
Pets and animals Travel

6 interesting places you must visit in Jos

post-image

6 interesting places you must visit in Jos

Jos, the city located on the Jos Plateau, during British colonial rule, Jos was very important to the mining industry and is presently the trading hub of the state and country at large as commercial activities are on the increase steady.

The beautiful city has cool weather like that of Europe, with the presence of mountains and hills making it possible. Sometimes ice-hailstones fall during the rainy season because of the cooler temperatures at high altitudes.

These cooler temperatures made Jos the favourite holiday location for tourists from the past colonial times to the present day tourists and visitors of the city.

So in case, you’re thinking of visiting the City of Jos anytime soon or in the future, Dailyfamily provides 6 interesting places you must visit in Jos.

Read Also: The things you…

Comments

comments

Read More
Education Radom news Travel

Top 5 Markets in Lagos – you need to visit them

post-image

Top 5 Markets in Lagos – you need to visit them

 

Top 5 Markets in Lagos - you need to visit them
Top 5 Markets in Lagos – you need to visit them

Any society that is meant for humans to habitat, must have a marketplace as a crucial social amenity. The marketplace is far from just a place to buy and sell but also a place that attracts tourists and social gathering of various kinds of people for several reasons.

We have a lot of unique markets in Lagos known for unique reasons like the Computer Village in Ikeja is known for ICT appliances and the Oshodi market is known for foodstuff and clothing.

Read Also: Nigeria to hoist world’s largest flag

Here are the top 5 markets in the city of Lagos:

1. Balogun…

Comments

comments

Read More
Business

Insecurity: CBN Governor, Godwin Emefiele releases shocking statement on Nigeria’s Economy

post-image

Governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria, CBN, Godwin Emefiele has pointed out that the country’s current economy cannot grow.

Emefiele disclosed that the nation’s economy cannot grow due to the current level of insecurity.

The CBN boss spoke at the end of a two-day monetary policy committee meeting in Abuja on Tuesday.

According to Emefiele: “If you want an economy to grow, the level of insecurity must be low because if there is a high level of insecurity like what we see today, the economy will suffer.”

Read Also: Buhari reveals why he paid $469m for Tucano aircraft ahead of National Assembly approval

He also disclosed that Nigeria will receive 12 fighter jets from the United States, US, to fight insecurity in July.

The CBN boss said the arrival of the jets followed a pact signed between the…

Comments

comments

Read More
Business

See 5 Small Businesses You Can Start With ₦10,000 In Nigeria

post-image

Despite the economic downturn, Nigerians are known to be very industrious people wherever they are found as they are very proud of this unique trait. With so many ideas floating around the table, you would think that everyone is an entrepreneur but the sad reality is there is little or no capital to make these ideas become real.

What many may not know is that there are some businesses you can start with as little as ten thousand naira or less. Let’s take a look at a few of these lucrative businesses you could start with such a small amount

1.    Fast Food Business

This is an evergreen business for every season. It’s always in demand.

People need…

Comments

comments

Read More