5 Real Secrets Of Harmony In The Love Relationship
Of course, there is no happy formula for all marriages, each couple is unique and consists of two specific individualities. Nothing is obvious since the mental systems gravitate in totally analogous orbits. What seems to work for some correspond to a real disaster for others.
Although there are no homogeneous patterns of behavior that provoke harmony in the love relationship, let us note some that, although the peculiarities are commonly repeated:
1. They cherish intimacy
They do not talk about your partner’s particularities and what happens in the relationship. They respect deeply the vulnerable secrets of each other and keep them just between them. Honoring these boundaries creates a bond of trust that keeps you happy and united.
2. They are treated with clarity
A harmonious life requires a lot of sincerity. It is a great learning to forget mischief and talk clearly about the difficulties of each one. The truth may hurt, but unresolved issues, resentments, and repressed sorrows can do much greater harm over time. “Pushing the dirt down the carpet” has never been cleaning solution. It is necessary, indeed, to talk about everything.
3. Respect differences
To honor the partner is to understand him in the differences, not to transform him into his own ideal. It is a great step to understand that the other thinks and acts differently from himself and this does not in any way mean an aggression. Couples who have already understood these natural dynamics of relationships know how to negotiate and find a way to reconcile impasses in favor of both.
4. Are committed to the relationship
Beyond the commitment, they have made and maintained with each other, harmonious couples commit to the relationship. They do not expect to work, they make it happen.
Knowing that people change, they also keep these beliefs up to date and do not change their behavior without first checking what the other person thinks about it. They really care about life together and spare no effort in keeping it in harmony.
5. Share feelings
The pain of one is the pain of the other, just as joy is. It’s not about emotional dependence, it’s about empathy. When we feel what the other feels we become more apt to help him. This complicity is able to promote channels of harmony so perfect that the spouses begin to understand themselves even with a simple exchange of eyes.
You may be thinking that the couples described above do not exist and you may have some reason in that. However, many are the spouses who seek this type of relationship and exercise these behaviors. They remind us that harmony exists from the will of each one.
So, propose to it and go to the fight!
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