5 MISUNDERSTANDINGS THAT WILL RUIN ANY MARRIAGE
we need to examine common misunderstandings that will ruin any relationship, marriage most especially.
1) MODE OF WORSHIP: If couples do not agree on the area of religion it can easily destroy their marriage. Even when they are in the same religion, they still need to agree on the mode of worship without which they may face a turbulent life together
2) FINANCIAL MISUNDERSTANDING
Money is another major area where couples must agree. Money tends to be emotional in nature, it’s part of our daily life, so we can’t pretend about it. It can lead to serious trouble in family life.
Couples must learn about the four M’s of money and agree on them if they want to avoid constant misunderstanding.These four M’s of Money are:
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— Making of money: They should discuss on how to make more money, who should work and for how long, They Should also discuss if the wife should work or be a stay at home mother and what kind of work is permitted in the home etc
— Managing of money: They should also talk about how to manage money. This involves budgeting, savings, giving and spending.
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— Mastering of Money: It involves been financially intelligent, getting to know how to manage money better, visions, developments, goals and projects.
— Maximizing of money: This involves making your money work for you, investing money, growing money, starting a business etc. couples should discuss these and get to control their money.
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3) PARENTING STYLE: Parenting styles can also be a major issue in a relationship, it involves matters of Child Discipline, Child rearing, Child training, indulgence etc.
4) SEXUAL MISUNDERSTANDING: Sex can be a major issue in a relationship, the couple should make sure this is discussed to the latter as it can easily destroy a marriage.
5) PEOPLE: In any relationship people will be around,may be friends,siblings,parents,in-laws,colleagues,exes,associates,neighbors etc.
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Misunderstanding about managing and handling people can be a great issue if it is not handled with wisdom. exes most especially can ruin any relationship if their shadow is still allowed to look around in the relationship
