5 Activities You MUST DO before Marriage
Many men and women can plan life to two next to the loved one, although this is a fair desire does not always work, all because these couples have not prepared enough to live their lives together.
To have happiness and success in marriage requires, first and foremost, planning. And this also requires action and attitudes on the part of passionate couples.
Not ignoring simple things can help them marry the ideal person who will always be by your side on happy days and sad days.
Observe 5 simple activities to do with it before making the decision of the wedding:
1. Visit someone with problems
Witnessing your partner’s attitude in difficult situations will allow you to know whether or not he or she is a mature and prepared person to deal with the challenges of marriage.
Observe if he is willing to support a friend or even a family member in trouble, this may help him to see traces of who he is, a caring or selfish person.
Learning about the qualities of the partner is valuable, however, learning about their manias and flaws is essential before you seal the marriage vows.
2. Family Meetings
Being with your partner among your family members will help you to have a brief insight into your character because the way he or she behaves with you or your family members will be impacting your decision.
And this has to be done many times, because the first time, one can even wear a mask and appear to be friendly, yet no one keeps masks for long, for the truth about who we are can not be hidden.
3. Go back to the same places
Try to go out in places you’ve been to before, such as the same restaurant or cafeteria, so it’s helpful to note how he treats people around you, because respect and honesty are necessary principles to succeed in Marriage, and are also characteristics that reveal the character of a person. If he is not honest or respectful to his neighbor, it is certain that he will not be with you either.
4. Activities with friends
Couples are always surrounded by other couples, but there are men who are jealous in the extreme to the point of forbidding friendships with their partners. This type of relationship tends to become abusive and suffocating after marriage, so it is important to evaluate the partner before marriage.
True love idealizes the best and friends are part of all this, for friends strengthen and provide joy, without them life becomes empty. If your partner pushes you away from you, it is a sign that you will suck on the good things you build in life, so you better rethink this relationship.
5. Make a venture together
A joint venture can help you realize how important you are in your partner’s life. Many divorces happen due to financial problems, so starting a venture with your partner can show if he is a balanced, honest and true man, for love is always found in sincerity and truth.
A man of bad character does not respect feelings, he lives his own interests, is too selfish to try to build something with someone. Unlike the good man who will do everything to honor the commitment to care for the well-being of the relationship.
A good man will never try to deceive you or lie to you, will never violate the bonds of trust that are among you, he will always add to your life and will never subtract.
Article by Akinbode Toluleke check up Twitter on taakinbode
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