4 signs that you need to be kinder to your family
Everyone agrees that life passes very quickly and that it is often only in moments of loss that we realize the importance of the people in our lives. But knowing this is not enough, fundamental is to seek to act different valuing our family members while we are close to them.
Life always finds a way to show us what we need to change to become better, and therefore happier, people. Some signs are a warning that we need to review our interaction with family members:
1. You are feeling away from the family group
You may think that it is your family members who are moving away from you, but think, it is they or you who, unconsciously, have privileged other things or people? It is very common to attribute to others the responsibility of what we feel when, in fact, we should look at our own actions.
Anyway, if you are feeling distant from your family members, it is best to seek rapprochement as soon as possible, after all, over time the links tend to fall apart. Removal of loved ones is a strong sign that there is a lack of rapport, kindness promotes harmony and rapprochement.
2. They have annoyed you a lot
In stressful times of life, you might get angry with everyone all the time. This is a sign that something is going wrong with your emotional balance. In that case, a good dose of kindness to yourself and to others does an immeasurable good. There are also the isolated cases of people with whom we have difficult cohabitation due to lack of affinities or because the person is really difficult to deal with.
In any situation, irritation is always harmful to yourself and to relationships. It’s never worth it. Manifesting kindness is a way of educating our own emotions by accepting and understanding the other as it is.
3. You have received many criticisms
When someone criticizes us the ideal is to analyze before dismissing the opinion of others, after all, we are not always right and criticism can help us to see this. If we analyze the unfounded criticism, we respect who did it and continue to act as we think it is best. However, if there is anything that makes sense, it’s worth going back and redefining or tailoring our actions. If the criticism has been intense, we must pay more attention to this analysis and see if we really are not lacking in the kindness of these people.
In this matter, the psychologist warns: It is important that you learn to deal with both external critics and your inner critic, who may be the fiercest, the inner critic, who is yourself.
4. Family members do not look for you in the difficulties
The sense of family is love and mutual support. If family members do not feel comfortable asking for help or do not seek their advice, something does not go very well in relation to the trust between you. Of course, you do not have to be the shield for everyone, let alone a wall to your regrets, however, not being reminded how support can be a pretty serious sign that you are lacking kindness in your relationships.
Gentleness is the ability to generate positive feelings toward others and have the ability to put them into practice. If you identify these signs in your relationship with your family members, start a campaign of kindness and kindness with them. Everyone will profit from it!
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