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4 Major Reasons People Think Double Dating Is Fun and Adventurous

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4 Major Reasons People Think Double Dating Is Fun and Adventurous

In reality, people will always find ways to develop plans and attitudes far from the expected code of conduct. Sometimes the so-called fun and joke today are serious problems with serious consequences.

In human society, promiscuity and unfaithfulness have increased greatly. People are getting harder and harder to trust and those who do not take part in one type or another of insincerity. Loyalty and faithfulness at present are very rare and scarce commodities.

What does it Mean to Double or Multiple Date? Well, with the ever-changing trends of events, new terminologies and concepts are being formulated. Double dating refers to when an individual is keeping two lovers or partners at the same time. It is when one is juggling two active relationships at the same time.

Accordingly, multiple dating refers to when someone does this with more than two persons. That is when an individual is engaged in a relationship with more than two persons simultaneously. To most persons, there is absolutely nothing wrong with keeping more than one committed relationship at the same time as far as you can handle comfortably without any issues.

So others opine that, if one is smart and wise enough to ensure that there are no clashes of interests among the various partners engaged with, then such a person can proceed and keep as many relationships as possible. Obviously, there are still a set of persons who are bothered greatly by this concept. They keep wondering why many persons involve in double and multiple dating. What is really the attraction behind this?

  1. The Feeling Of Control And Conquest

A lady or a man who has two or more relationships simultaneously feels that he or she is in control. Those people have the power to do what they like as they participate in their different lifetime partners. There is also the feeling that your various dates have been won over. They feel they could subdue them to their whims and let them float around them. This gives a feeling of control and conquest that makes the person feel comfortable.

  1. The Availability Of Options

Whenever you’ve got more choices, a certain sense of joy is always attached. You’ve got a special thing, knowing that there are alternatives to select. As it is, you can easily turn aside from the other, if one partner tries to act in a certain way. That is why most people want more than one partner at a time. This is justified by the idea that one does not put the eggs in one basket. The Awkward It is said, variety is life’s spice. There is little wonder why people get so much fun and excitement in maintaining more than one relationship at a time.

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  1. Hanging Out With Different Persons From Time To Time Is Fun

That way, you do not get bored or tired of seeing a particular face or spending time with a particular person. The feeling of importance and being wanted having many people flock around you all seeking your attention is a big reason people double date. This feeling that people are courted by several people and that attention from both sides leads some people to participate simultaneously in multiple relations.

  1. The Bragging Rights

You may not be new to the concept of body count, especially among the male folk. They love the numbers as it massages their ego whenever They are sitting out with fellow men. At times, the number of women in a guy’s control is used as a measure of manhood by some persons. Ladies use this to rate how trendy and current they are. Therefore, the fact that this multiple date accords a kind of prestige makes it an adventure for many people.

Somehow, we can agree that those practice of double or multiple dating have their reasons and to some extent, they derive some benefits from it. Till tomorrow, there will still be those continuing in this practice not interested in its moral rightness or wrongness. However, good virtues and attributes are always better. Thus, we should all be thinking of how to be faithful and loyal to one sole partner which is the ideal thing to do.

 

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