4 Great Things That Cause Problems In Marriages
1. Separate families
When a couple unites to form a new family, it is just a cell of two other families. It would be good if each couple were fortunate enough to unite the two families together and form a large family. When the opposite happens, the mother-in-law receives pejorative nicknames instead of affection, meeting with the relative is just another reason for discord, anyway … the confusion is armed.
And, unfortunately, sadness can take the place of the love that united that couple. Couples with a good relationship with family members tend to build more lasting relationships. Contrary to couples who are victims of a hunch here, how spoonful there.
Disinterested, unmotivated or tired are couples who do not go forward. Marriage requires investment from both parties. “When one does not want to, two do not fight” or “two do not” or “two do not get together”. The two need to give way and together invest in the relationship. Relieve the faults of the other, forgive a few times and dedicate yourself always. The lack of intentional investment in marriage is the main cause of terms.
According to a survey, half married men admit to betraying their wife at least once. On the other hand, women who betray or have betrayed represent 30.1%. Although in smaller numbers, the woman is betraying more and more. For every ten divorces in which he works, seven are motivated by infidelity.
Most of the betrayals happen in the workplace or between friends of the couple. Recently a girl confessed that she had been betrayed a few years ago and since then she is also unfaithful, creating a cycle of infidelity in their relationship that already has a predefined date to end. In conversation with the husband, both agreed that with grown children they will not have to stay together. Does it seem absurd? For, unfortunately,
“It will get better after we marry” or “it goes away” or worse: “My love will change you.” Who never, if you have not thought, already heard these terms from someone? According to some psychologists, many marriages end up due to frustrations and disappointments due to the perfect idea that was created by what would be the other and the marriage itself. For them, it is a mistake to believe that what bothers them about dating can be changed after marriage.
Marriage is not a continuation of the courtship, but a new phase of the relationship that will require other responsibilities of the couple that can evidence, rather than cancel, some characteristics. Perhaps the tip is to really know the other, including admitting and accepting the faults, before taking a step towards forming a new family.
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