3 Indications Of Normal And Abnormal Jealousy-dailyfamily.ng

3 Indications Of Normal And Abnormal Jealousy
You would definitely agree with me that there are normal and abnormal type of jealousy. In the scriptures, God is said to be a jealous God, which would be the proper type.

lso, there is a positive and negative difference between wind and tornadoes, so we can compare them to normal and pathological jealousy. Wind is an element of the positive and essential nature of human existence; it is the moving air which at times tends to be weak or strong in its movement.

The wind has the capacity to spread many seeds, allowing the emergence of new trees. It also cleans the air by taking carbon dioxide and providing pure oxygen. So it is with normal jealousy, it is like the wind, for some it is just enjoyable; however, for others, it is essential to prove love.

Tornadoes are negative. They are usually strong swirls of winds that take shape through a center of low pressure during storms. Tornadoes can not touch the ground, if they do, a sudden drop in atmospheric pressure occurs, which causes high-speed winds to destroy everything in front of them. Pathological jealousy is as dangerous and uncontrolled as tornadoes, it tends to destroy family relationships and bonds.

Look at the 3 signs that his jealousy is normal and 3 signs of abnormal jealousy:

Normal jealousy

1. Friendships
Sometimes your partner may be jealous of a mutual friend of you, especially if the friendship started for you and not for him. This can occur in the relationship as a strong wind, so it is necessary to clarify things.

Remember: never give up your friends for anything or anyone.

2. Clothing
You look beautiful to work and your partner comments that you do not need to pack up that much to work. This is normal jealousy because he is human and can feel insecure, knowing that others will also find you beautiful.

However, you should not neglect to take care of yourself, if you do, you will cease to be who you really are.

Be beautiful to yourself, for that was how your partner met you.

3. Photos
The partner looks at your pictures with friends and asks who the man is in it. Even though there are many friends in the same picture, this can occur several times, as this type of jealousy is normal in cases like these, a man close to you can cause discomfort in your partner.

It is important that you talk about the person in the picture without fear, making your partner understand that you are faithful to the relationship because that is part of who you are, that is, it is linked to your character and not because he is your partner.

Abnormal jealousy

1. Enforce rules
Feeling insecure in a relationship can be a problem that anyone can face at the beginning of the relationship because trust takes time and must be earned.

However, a partner who suffocates you tends to dictate rules for your life, such as where you can work, when to visit your family and what kind of clothing you can use.

2. Control
The partner with pathological or abnormal jealousy tends to be extremely controlling and, like a tornado, it will not only control everything around you but will also destroy everything you love and make you happy.

Unfortunately, no matter how much the partner says he loves her, his unhealthy jealousy will not allow him to look happy, because he is too selfish and needs to keep you in a cage so he does not feel insecure and threatened.

3. Violence
A partner with pathological jealousy tends to use moral, physical, psychological, sexual and patrimonial violence whenever he feels he has lost control of the situation, especially when he feels he has lost control or threatened. Because he can imagine in his sick mind that there is a third person involved in the relationship.

Now you have seen the two types of jealousy and see what you need to in order to keep going and happy. When a relationship gets sore, please try and make sure you repair it.

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