21 Things That Will Re-fuel Love In Your Marriage
–By Bisi Adewale
Love is a living organism, it has the capacity to live, fall sick and die if not taken care of.
For love to grow and flourish in marriage, there is food to be given to it daily which I called 23 things that will re-fuel love in your marriage. Is your love-life getting dry, or do you want a continuous honeymoon in your marriage? then these points are for you:
.Put God first
- Let communication channels be open
- Love your spouse
- Pray for each other- separately and together
- Accept your partner the way he or she is
- Forgive generally
- Be kind to your spouse
- Submit to each other (Ephesians 5:21)
- Think positively about your spouse always
- Love your spouse with all your heart.
- Stay in the same room
- Work for each other
- Be selfless, serve your mate
- Never shout on your spouse.
- Read marriage books regularly
- Give room for sex and romance
- Attend marriage-enrichment programs
- Go for counselling
- Do things together:- work together, play, pray, plan, study the Bible, joke, live, dress, travel, rejoice, sleep, eat, bath and train your children together. By all means be together and do things in common.
- Celebrate each other; defend, protect, seek, satisfy, serve each other and respect each other.
- Plan for the future together
- Give all your attention, affection and passion for your spouse
- Create room for relaxation and recreation together, spend your vacation together.
- Believe in your spouse and build trust
- Be faithful to your spouse and be trustworthy.
- Be a good example to your children
- Fight for your marriage, do not fight each other
- Honour and respect your spouse
- Deliberately create time to be together just for the fun of it.
21 Things That Will Re-fuel Love In Your Marriage
