13 Priceless Tips That Ensure a Lasting and Happy Marriage
Happy marriage is not built up at random. I hear a lot about the luck of the unions that “worked.” The fact is that there is no harmony where there is no continuous effort plus much love, renunciation and understanding.
There is no magic formula for building a happy marriage, much less a recipe for saving a marriage, but some tips can help:
1. Change destructive behaviors
It is highly advisable to rethink behaviors and change ways to act toward improving the love relationship. Think: if the results are not satisfactory you need to change the actions.
2. Respect and consider the other
One has to face the reality that two individuals have different ways and yet are not right or wrong, they are just different. Respecting the differences of acting and expressing feelings is fundamental to a harmonious relationship.
3. Improve communication
Listen carefully and speak clearly. Learn to express feelings in words and actions. Even when you consider that you spoke clearly, ask your partner if his or her understanding was exactly the one you wanted to convey.
4. Do not expect happiness on a tray
Never expect your spouse to make you happy, that is your responsibility. Of course you can be building happiness with it through love and friendship, but never make it a must.
5. Watch out for his family.
Create bonds of respect with your spouse’s family of origin. Even without agreeing, it is important that you understand your spouse’s relationship with his or her family members, as well as how they manifest and develop their relationships.
6. Acknowledge your mistakes
Conflicts between the couple are always built in two; Do not try to justify yourself by pointing out the mistakes of the spouse. The responsibilities in the love relationship are both. If you’ve made a mistake, acknowledge it.
7. Create trust links
It is important to build a relationship of mutual trust, this strengthens the couple’s harmony and prepares you for facing the natural obstacles in life for two. Sharing goals, dreams, thoughts is a form of unity.
8. Express affection
Do not be afraid to show your best feelings for the one you love. Expressing affection in words and actions makes the relationship more healthy and delicious.
9. Allow yourself to live a healthy sex life
Sex is pleasure to be shared; Is an exchange of energy that invigorates and stimulates the relationship to two. Be interested in what your spouse likes and allow him to find the ways of your pleasure.
10. Remove jealousy
Jealousy is always a sign of insecurity; The less you engage with it, the better for your relationship. By developing self-confidence and self-respect, it is possible to dispel this destructive feeling.
11. Never take away the authority of your spouse
The education of the children is the responsibility of both, so it must be discussed and agreed by the couple. It is important for the relationship and still more for the healthy development of the children that the couple is united for the same purposes.
12. Do joint planning
Planning the family finances as well as executing what is planned is the duty of the couple. Goals need to be traced and developed to two in order to keep the family economy balanced and avoid conflicts.
Understanding that no one is infallible is a practical way of producing forgiveness. Forgiving does not mean accepting the error of others; To forgive is to free yourself from hurt and to give yourself and the other a new chance.
One must be aware of the need to give up some individual needs in favor of good living together. Giving up in some situations is the best thing to do, but this can not mean sacrifice, so learn to negotiate. Seek to understand your spouse’s needs, try to see things from his or her point of view, and encourage you to do the same for yourself.
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