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13 Best Marriage advice ever
Marriage is beautiful when there is understanding, for your marriage to be the best there are some things you must not do and things you must never stop doing. Here is the best advice ever for marriage:
- Communicate constantly: communication is very important for any relationship to last. For your marriage to stand the test of time, you must communicate with each other regularly. Not communicating will create a bridge between you and your spouse.
- Cuddle after a stressful day: marriage is sweet when you live in the same house, in the same room, and on the same bed. After a stressful day, come together in each other’s arms, cuddle and enjoy the moment together to ease the stress from the day.
- Love your spouse every day: you must love your spouse continually, don’t ever stop loving that man/woman you are in love with at the beginning before you got married. When you feel hurt, remember how you started and the hurtful feeling will evaporate.
- Pray together: always take the situations in your marriage together to God in prayers. Remember two are better than one. Thank God for past achievements and commit other desires you have to God.
- Respect each other: in marriage, respect for each other is very important. Don’t use abusive on your spouse when you feel bad about whatever they have done instead, keep quiet for that period because whatever you say you can’t take it back again.
- Don’t deny each other sex: sex is important for couples to connect; this is why you should never deny each other sex. Lack of sex in marriage will create a gap between the couple even if you are sleeping on the same bed.
- Work as a team: teamwork is needed in marriage, husbands and wives must work together to achieve their aims. They must always work towards with the same goal, never go against each other’s dreams or desires but work together as couples.
- Do things you love together: when you know what your spouse love doing join him or her to do it or if you both like doing some things together, try to do them as it makes the bond between you both stronger.
- Read books on marriage: books on marriage helps to give you the required knowledge that you need in Marriage. Regularly, get these books and read them together.
- Attend to each other’s needs: you must be observant to notice the needs of your spouse even when they don’t mention it. Attending to each other’s needs will help your spouse to know that you care for him or her.
- Play together: do things that create fun together. Play games, compete, just do what will ease you of regular stress you experience. Playing together makes you both feel young like children again.
- Don’t assume: when you notice what shouldn’t be in your spouse or around the house, don’t arrive at a particular conclusion but take some time to ask your spouse questions so that things can be clarified. When you assume, it can cause bitterness that can lead to a huge quarrel.
- Don’t sleep until you settle your quarrels: whenever there is a quarrel in your marriage, sort it out that day. Don’t allow that issue to wait until the next day. Resolve the issue that night before sleeping. Make this a habit in your marriage.
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