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10 Ways People Sabotage their relationships

10 Ways People Sabotage their relationships
When you are in a relationship, then you know that there are several things attached to it. some of this includes trust, love and the likes. Well, on the other hand, if you don’t trust the person you are in love with, then you may be sabotaging your relationship. On the other hand, what do several do to sabotage their relationship? Then the following 10 points will clarify my thoughts.

1. Close Marking
When you don’t give him a breathing space. You get his cell phone hidden and scan it. When he is in the shower, you go into his Facebook profile and make sure there’s something he’s hiding from you. Call him when he’s not with you.

You need to make sure he’s right at home. Or, call the friend’s house to where he said he would study. Oh, do not forget to call the office. Let the boss or the operator let out some important information! This is very dangerous to the relationship.

2. Doubt what he says
You do not just ask, “Are you sure that’s it?” You need to get the story clean with his friends or his mother. Well, too many questions can indeed affect the relationship. Trust and understanding suffices.

3. You never praise him
Do not praise his personality, his smile, his athletic physique, his excellent grades in college. Never praise him for being a great professional, for being a generous and friendly person. The compliments will spoil it. He’s going to find his best.

4. Escape the dialogues
When he wants to come and talk to you about something important about the two of you, change the subject immediately. Or tell me, I’m too busy. Or, turn on the TV or insert a headset. Better go on the internet and get distracted. You are not interested in what he has to say. Really, this is vey bad and it is dangerous to you both!

5. Be impulsive and explosive
At any signal that something will happen, you let out a scream! You make him paralyzed with fear. You have the power in your hands to use aggression.

6. Speak ill
His mother, brothers, father, best friend, football team. After all, they all pose a threat to your dating.

7. You have a good memory of bad things.
Never forget anything unpleasant that he has said or done in the past. Whenever the opportunity comes, shoot it all in his face. Make him relive the past by giving news of the people who have passed through his life. And most importantly, talk about the happy moments you spent with your ex.

8. Unleash discussions
You know that silly little talk you have every now and then, yeah, turn it into a war of words. It’s so good to play cat and mouse! Enjoy doing this often.

9. Do not humble yourself
After the discussions, let him seek you for a reconciliation. Never apologize. He may think you are weak. It is he who must humble himself, not you. That’s where you will see how much it’s worth to him. What harm does it take to risk your relationship with these children?

10. Do not express your love
As much as you like him, never say that you love him. This initiative must always start from him. And when he says, answer, “Me too.”

Similarly, do not take his hand or express his affection in public, and if a friend or acquaintance is seeing? You do not want to “burn” in front of your friends, will you?

I hope you have learned your lesson. By doing what was suggested above, you will put everything to waste. Now, if you are not a fool enough to want this disgrace to your life, do the opposite of all this. Well, Never do this at all. You are killing yourself and that’s it.

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