Be A Pillar Of Support To Your Husband In His Career
BISI ADEWALE
Men are known to be career focused; they are known to love their purpose and crazy about their jobs. If you must get the attention of your husband, then you must be a pillar of his purpose, you must be number one supporter of his career, encourage and motivate him to succeed.
Most women complain that their husbands are too much in love with their jobs and career out of anger this kind of women do rise up to fight their men and his career. Just to get their attention, this can prove fatal because men find their fulfillment in their career, not in their relationship.
If it is your husband secretary that gives him all the necessary support as far as his job is concern; she will be the one that will get his love and attention. You can’t win a man if you don’t love his job and career and show that you do.
Many men erroneously believe that work comes before family, that is why most of them do say, “Work is life”, to win men with this mindset; women need to learn to love what they do and give their adequate support to it. Michelle Hammond said, “A man is drawn to a woman who knows how to work with him not against him”. This is absolute truth, your husband has both open and secret love with his job, and he is having an ‘affair’ with his career; and your nagging, complaints, and fighting cannot stop the ‘affair’ because it is a legitimate kind of affair. All you just need to do is to know how to go into his life and heart, by support and love.
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