9 REASONS WHY A GUY MAY BREAK YOUR HEART
–By Kemi Samuel
“After all, I’ve done and sacrifice for him, how can he now say it’s over, it’s not fair! where do l start from”? This and many other thoughts went through Janet’s mind and she even felt like committing suicide. Matters of the heart are so delicate and must be handled with care; not to get burnt, so many ladies have been burnt and could not help wonder if there are real men that will love them sincerely. Listed below are 9 reasons a man may break your heart: 9 REASONS WHY A GUY MAY BREAK YOUR HEART
1) When he sees you only as a girlfriend material:
Many ladies do not understand the fact that a man is professing love does not mean he sees you as good enough to take home to mama, when a man does not see you fit into his future as a partner and you only fit into his today’s world, meaning you are replaceable and he can do that any moment. 9 REASONS WHY A GUY MAY BREAK YOUR HEART
2) He has seen it all:
Many men at the beginning go into the relationship with the good intention of taking it to the altar but reconsidered when they have tasted everything, enjoying free sex, there is no reason for a man to propose to a lady if he is already getting from her everything he should be getting from a wife. Men love challenges and if you are no more giving him one, he goes about looking for a new challenge
3) If the relationship is undefined: A good reason why a guy may break your heart is when the relationship is undefined, that is who are you to him? Did he propose to you or simply ask you to be a friend? How long is it to last before you walk the aisle? Girlfriend , do surprised if he gives you his wedding invites someday if you don’t ask this questions
4) He is a playboy: Its true they are so appealing and fun to be with but honey they should be a no go area for any serious minded lady, they are never faithful they specialise in breaking hearts .Please, protect yourself from a guy who would waste your time and life
5) A dark Past: There is no body without a past and if he really love you; he should be able to handle your past but telling him about it too early in the relationship can cause a total break-up.
6) Keeping the relationship secret: “He told me not to let anyone know about our 3 years old relationship and now, am heartbroken because he is getting married to someone else next saturday” sasys 21years old Kate.Don’t be fooled, anyone who want you to make your relationship a secret one is not sincere.Run away from him before he break your heart. 9 REASONS WHY A GUY MAY BREAK YOUR HEART
7) Compromising something good and Godly : Many ladies makes the mistake of abandoning their good moral or even their faith because of supposed love , not knowing that deep down the guy he sees is not a stable human, not strong enough to hold your own against the world, its disappointing ; no real man wants that.
8) Rebound: A guy may break your heart if you are foolish enough to let him use you as a rebound or make an ex jealous.Having a relationship with someone that just broke a relationship or got jilted is a wrong move, please let him heal or you will become his dumpsite.
9) Your family connection and money: A guy may break your heart if he is in the relationship because of connections.Is he always telling you to introduce him to your influential father or uncle? Is he always at ease spending your money? Be careful honey you might have a heart breaker close to you!
