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21 best Marriage advice for a new bride

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21 best Marriage advice for a new bride

Adenike Akindude

Every new bride is always looking forward to enjoying the best of her marriage with great expectations; however, for these expectations to be met there are certain things a bride must do.

These are the best advice for a new bride:

1. Love your husband: as a new bride, the love you have for your husband is still fresh and burning but way into the marriage there may be situations that make you doubt your love for your spouse. You must never allow this to happen; always choose to love your husband.

2. Respect your husband: every man wants to be respected, they love their ego. This also applies to your husband; so, give him the respect he deserves. Respect him more than any other man.

3. Respect your in-laws: give your in-laws the respect they deserve, don’t ever disrespect them. This is because they may have some amount of influence on your husband because he knew them before meeting you.

4. Submit to your husband: as a woman you need to submit to your husband, this means you must involve him in everything you do. No decision should be taken without your husband’s consent, ask for his approval first.

5. Cook good food: every man love to eat good food, this is why you must always give your husband delicious and healthy food. Always give your husband what he wants to eat.

6. Always appreciate your husband: “Thank you” must always come out from your mouth every time your husband does something. Always appreciate everything your husband does.

7. Be hospitable: you must make sure your feel at home when they visit you. Take care of family members or any other visitors properly, make them feel at home in your house.

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8. Look good: most women when they get married stop looking beautiful the way they were before their husband married them. You must not be like those women; make your hair, wear good clothes and look beautiful always.

9. Be his best friend: be your husband’s best friend and confidant, play with him, joke with him, gist with him and let him feel welcome at home always.

10. Be a listener: develop a good listening ability, be ready to hear people out first. Always listen to your husband when he gives instructions or advice.

11. Be sexy: as a new bride, you must know how to satisfy your husband sexually and also look sexy. Don’t wear night dresses that make you look old and unattractive but wear those that will send good signals across to your husband.

 

12. Be a wise spender: spend the income you have in your marriage wisely, make budgets with your husband, and buy those things that are needed and important alone. Avoid buying unnecessary things or wasting money.

13. Be a builder/keeper: a woman must know how to build her home to be the best. Build your home the right way and with good morals. After you might have built, keep your home from falling apart by guarding against anything that can affect your marriage negatively.

14. Support your husband: be the first and best supporter of your husband whenever he is trying to achieve a particular goal. Don’t be the type of woman that will always discourage her husband from achievements.

15. Prepare for motherhood: get yourself ready to be a mother, acquire the knowledge you need to be a good mother and how you will take care of your children when they start arriving. Don’t allow motherhood to meet you unprepared. To get ready, you can read books or attend programs and learn from other mothers.

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16. Love your mother-in-law: don’t ever go into your marriage with the premonition that your mother-in-law is your enemy but love and cherish her like your mother. Sometimes, she will do some things that will offend you but you must forgive her.

17. Be a giver: you must not be tight-fisted as a wife because people will always visit your house and they may feel in need of one thing or the other. Whenever people visit you, give them something no matter how little, it shows you appreciate their visit.

18. Don’t listen to rumors: people will always come around to give you wrong information especially about your husband; you must never listen to them. Discard all rumors immediately before they contaminate your mind.

19. Be tolerant: people will annoy you with their behavior and some are looking for ways to get you upset intentionally. You must allow this to affect you as these people may be your in-laws; forgive easily and tolerate people.

20. Pray always: as a wife and a mother or mother to be you have so many things to pray about. Always pray and hand over every situation to God as He is the only one that can take care of them.

21. Don’t be bitter: people will hurt you and make you sad but you must not be bitter. Bitterness will affect you emotionally and physically, in your health which is why you must never allow it.


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